Showing posts with label Comfort Zone. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Comfort Zone. Show all posts

Friday, April 2, 2021

CONSIDERATION

CONSIDERATION

Many people are being drawn to their Sacred Partners these days.
Sometimes that could be someone familiar seen in a new light, or a past life connection recognized.
Are you clear on what you want? Are you also considering the hopes, needs, wishes and dreams of the person you desire? Or are you looking for someone to plug into the empty space that aches in your life? Did you ask what their aspirations are? Are you taking time to get to know them? Or pushing an ultimatum, on your terms only?
Do you take into consideration, with events of the last year, that we are all navigating uncharted territory?
Is it love, or a need for control to calm your angst that drives you? Can you be comfortable with uncertainty?
Can you allow the seeds to bud, flower and blossom?
Spring is in the air, complete with intoxicating, fresh scents that reawaken innate memories.
Yet all we ever really have is today, here, now. Can you enjoy the journey and allow love and romance to unfold naturally? Or will your insecurities and demand for commitment cause you to give up and run away?
These are things we should reflect upon and ask ourselves. ❤



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Wednesday, December 10, 2014

They May Need You But Do They Want You? December 8, 2014 By Jennifer Hoffman



They May Need You But Do They Want You?
December 8, 2014 By Jennifer Hoffman



We believe that the gift of healing is the best thing we can give to those who need it and it is, as long as it’s something they want and are ready for. But so often we see and are aware of the need for healing in others, and this is especially true for those who are strongly empathic, and automatically assume that they want to be healed. So we bathe them in our healing light, only to find that we’re rejected on every level. Why? Because before we extend healing to those we believe are in need of healing, we must ask whether it’s what they want, because as blasphemous as this may sound, everyone does not want healing  or to be healed, and they’ll fight you with everything they have if you try to give them healing they are not ready for.

As much as we extend healing to those we know are hurting, suffering, and whose lives are limited by the presence of their fear and pain, with the best of intentions, it is the equivalent of spiritual arrogance and energetic manipulation to give people healing that they have not asked for, do not want, and are not ready for. Yes, even if you know they’re flat on the floor, if you try to pick them up before they’re ready to get up by themselves, they will slap your hand away and tell you to leave them alone. Why?

Because it’s not the healing they are afraid of, but what happens to them once they are healed.  They feel more powerful in their unhealed state, which is their comfort zone, than being healed, which is not only their discomfort zone, it’s also totally unfamiliar and quite scary. Some people are empowered by their pain, even if that doesn’t make sense to you, and they are grounded through the pain and chaos they choose to live with. If you try to change that, they will be lost, ungrounded, confused, and in unfamiliar and scary territory. Before someone can accept healing, they need to find a new source of empowerment to replace the (pain-filled) one they are currently using. Even if it doesn’t bring them peace and joy, it’s still what they are comfortable with and they don’t want to give it up until they are ready.

It doesn’t have to make sense or be logical, as it’s part of the acceptance and non-judgment that we must be willing to extend to others as we complete our own healing journey. One of the reasons we want certain people to be healed involves our own karma and we believe that healing them gives us closure and we can move on, karma free. But that’s our agenda and it is built on several false assumptions:

    -that everyone needs to have healing and closure in a specific way for karma to be over,
    -that we are responsible for others’ healing,
    -that just because we know someone is in pain we assume they want to be healed,
    -that we must be their healer and that’s why we are on their path, and
    -that all karmic partners must be healed in the same way for karmic closure to happen.

As I wrote in Ascending into Miracles — The Path of Spiritual Mastery, “Karma is like a dance and when one of the partners stops dancing, the karmic dance is over.” We now have the opportunity to end karma, which has been the purpose of this soul cycle and we’re at the turning point now. The karmic dance is over when we choose to step away, not when we have finally achieved our desired total healing mission. Then the other person will either find a new karmic partner or decide to stop dancing too. We are not responsible for that choice, nor do we have any control over it.

Are we ready to let our need for healing go and let everyone heal in their own time, at their own pace, and when they’re ready? Can we be the Light Beacons and shine healing potential on humanity’s path so they can see it when they’re ready, or will we continue to be Light Workers, striving to heal a world, through our own fear of karma’s continued presence, by extending healing to people we know may need it, but who don’t want it or are not ready for it. It’s time to let karma be a thing of the past it belongs to and pave the healed and whole path to the new paradigms that everyone has access to, when they are ready for healing, by being an example of joyful, joy-filled, healed and whole living, so they can make that choice for themselves, when they are ready to be empowered by a new way of being that is karma and pain-free.

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Monday, September 15, 2014

Creation Cycles – From Earth to Beyond | Brenda Hoffman – Life Tapestry Creations

Creation Cycles – From Earth to Beyond

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Channeled by Brenda Hoffman

 Dear Ones,

In the next few days you will automatically discover those skills you need for your next new earth role. Some of you dream of dimension hopping, channeling or whatever is upper-most in your interest catalog. But not all of you will discover that your dream skill set is that which you now want.

Perhaps that last statement appears counter-intuitive for we have told you on several occasions that you are now creating your dreams. So you are. But you do not need a full skill set to do so.

Dimension-hopping is not required for your dreams of moving to a new community or a relationship. But if time-travel has been your dream for eons or even in this life-time, dimension-hopping is important for you.

Of course, you will pick up skills along the way and/or as you shift your dreams – which is inevitable once you fully realize you can create the life of your dreams. But most likely, you will create your dream life on earth before you move beyond the stars.

That is not to limit your skill set, but instead to inform you that you will most likely create in cycles  from that which you know to that which is an exciting mystery.

Some of you will immediately address those places and times you are not familiar with in your 3D world, but most of you will ensure that your being is comfortable before jumping to the next step of exploring/creating that with which you are not familiar.

Does that mean you will be financially comfortable in the next few days? Perhaps – depending on your belief system and your being. But most likely, it means you will solidify your comfort zone dreams in the next few days and use that base to create that comfort zone. A bit like selecting a major in college and then taking those courses that entice and excite you in that field.

Many of you worry that this learning period will continue forever. In a way, you are correct. For as you create one piece for yourself, another interest will appear that moves you further along the Universal continuum of learning/creating.

Just as was true for your 3D being, you will be perpetually learning skills to create your new interests throughout eternity.

Perhaps you question that thought for you wish to create what you want NOW – and then move on. But just as was true in your 3D world, you cannot obtain the job of your dreams until you complete certain aspects of learning.

Some of you believe you have not used most of the skills you learned in school. Such is true.

This Universal University is a bit different. You will apply those skills required to create the life of your dreams. For example, if you wish to live in a new home, you will use skills to obtain that. Once you are comfortable in your new home, your creation skills will stretch to include those necessary for your next dream and on and on.

You all have a complete skill set. Just as all of you have similar software for your computers – even if you do not use the same software applications as your friend for you have different needs and interests.

So it is now. You are complete. But you will create those dreams that are in your mind now. And as those are created, you will allow yourself new dreams and new creations.

Some of you are concerned that you will never create anything. That you have not yet downloaded your complete Universal skill set. That everyone but you knows how to create.

Such is merely a 3D fear you continue so you do not have to expect anything of yourself. Perhaps it is based on pieces you interpreted incorrectly in past lives. Or your belief that to be truly spiritual, you must give everything to everyone before you accept joy for yourself. Or numerous other reasons you alone know.

But know that you are fully capable now of creating whatever you want, when you want it. There is nothing in your way – other than yourself.

Now those of you who have physical ills are quite uncomfortable with that last statement for you believe you will not overcome that which ties you to a painful existence. First ask yourself if you wish to remain on earth at this time. Then ask yourself if you wish to remain on earth in pain. And then allow yourself to share your feelings and love with that part or parts of your physical being in pain.

Go within. You have the skills. And if you wish to remain on earth deep within you, you have the skills now to create a new life of joy. Joy does not contain the pain you have suffered for so long. That is not to blame you, but instead to help you pinpoint what you wish to create at this time.

Some wish to create financial abundance. Some physical health. Others, friendship or love. It does not matter for all are the same. All are moving to joy and away from pain – at whatever level and whatever fashion. Create your earth dreams. You are fully capable of doing so when and where you wish.

Now you are angry, for you have tried and tried and nothing happens other than more pain in whatever sphere.

Remove your anger. Remove your CANNOT DO beliefs. Believe in yourself. And create the earth life of your dreams. The rest will follow once you are fully comfortable in your earth being. So be it. Amen.


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