RELATIONSHIPS AND YOUR SACRED UNION
Beloved masters, the refined frequencies of the New Age are having a profound effect on how you view yourselves. As you learn to take back your power, set boundaries, and reclaim a sense of self-worth, it will also have an intense effect in your relationships with others, especially romantic relationships.
In
the past, you have had many unresolved issues that created what could
be called “imbalanced or vulnerable blemishes” in your emotional body
and chakra system, especially chakras one through four. You had many
unresolved issues within you in the form of guilt, fear, anger, a sense
of abandonment, and of being unlovable. All of these thought forms have a
vibrational frequency, and you radiated those frequencies of
unworthiness out into the world. See these energies radiating forth in
front of you and all around you in an Infinity Sign, whereby they are
picked up by those who are resonating to the same frequency levels, and
thus are drawn into your life in one way or another. Unconsciously, you
attracted to you those who were also coming from a viewpoint of
“neediness.” You hoped they could fix everything for you and make you
happy, but in reality all this kind of relationship creates is more
friction through feelings of lack and an inner sense of unworthiness. In
the past, most relationships were based on physical attraction, which
usually fades rather quickly if there is not more depth to the
attraction.
There
were other disempowering components as well such as dependency, a
desire for security or an attempt to find validation of self-worth
outside oneself. Unresolved issues and problems are magnified when
someone comes into your life that mirrors these negative situations back
to you. These issues and problems invariably create friction, which is
not necessarily a bad thing if you recognize them, are willing to
acknowledge them, and you agree to make a concerted effort to change
them for the better.
The
emphasis now is on returning to wholeness within yourself through
taking personal responsibility for your actions, and through building
self-esteem, and of a sense of worthiness via your solar heart center in
cooperation with your Soul-Self and Higher-Self. Truth and integrity
will be the foundation of any relationship of the future. First, you
must accept who you are at the present time as you strive to become the
very best person you can possibly be through self-examination of your
attitudes, beliefs, habits and your weaknesses. You will learn that the
foundation of a lasting relationship with others is to first have a
“love affair” with yourself, whereby you strive to become more loving
and lovable. Eventually you realize that “you are love personified,” and
you do not need anyone else to validate that truth for you because,
deep within, you have claimed it. You tap into your Sacred Heart and
that wellspring of unconditional love within your own Divine God Spark,
and you remember that there is a never-ending supply of Love/Light
available to you through your Light connection with Source. That is your
Divine Heritage, dear hearts. Why not claim it?
It
takes a strong, mutual commitment, without blame, judgment, or
ego-driven accusations to work out personal differences, and to arrive
at mutually beneficial conclusions that are fair to all parties
involved. In a growing, evolving relationship, no longer will there be
an emphasis on who is “right” or who is “wrong,” but on compromise, and a
desire to meet the needs of everyone involved in the most equitable
way.
No
area of your life can remain stagnant, especially for those of you who
are dedicated to your spiritual path and Soul evolution. It is not
always possible for those in a relationship to grow or evolve at the
same pace. However, it is possible to not feel threatened, to remain in a
supporting role, and to allow those around you to develop at their own
pace, if you have established a “Sacred union” within yourself. This
“Sacred union” is returning to balance and harmony within your physical,
mental, emotional and spiritual bodies, as well as reclaiming the
attributes and virtues of your masculine and feminine natures. The
strictly defined roles of males and females are gradually being altered,
whereby a blending of sexually defined roles is becoming more the norm.
Once more, the powerful radiance of the Goddess is being showered down
upon the Earth and humanity. The status of women is rapidly changing,
and masculine/feminine equality will become the norm when both men and
women claim their intrinsic masculine/feminine natures. The battle of
the sexes has its origins within, for humanity has struggled for aeons
to reunite the god and goddess within. Women are learning to reclaim
their power; however, they know they must use this gift with love and
compassion as an overlay. Those in the male body are gradually learning
to allow the unconditional love of the Goddess to “Light the fire of
compassion and gentleness within.” They are learning that there is
strength in creativity, intuition and a willingness to allow oneself to
be gentle and open-hearted.
As
you strive for spiritual maturity, many facets of your life will
change. There will be a strong desire to support one another, along with
an intense yearning to grow and expand, even if at times your paths may
take different directions. You will claim the truth that you are bonded
together at a Soul level, and you can never truly be separated.
True
sexual union is and can be an incredible spiritual experience, not just
the joining of two bodies. Divine sexuality calls for a total opening
of the heart, a blending of the mental, emotional and physical facets of
your Being, which results in a profound, lasting experience. This type
of union can result in a true sense of unity if you are in harmony at a
deep Soul level, one with another.
You
must remove etheric barriers or filters you have placed around your
heart and emotions if you are to be able to receive and radiate
unconditional love. You must confront your fears about losing those you
love, and of disappointments and betrayals of the past, which often
manifest as a fear of intimacy or of making a commitment to another. As
you learn to believe in and trust yourself, you will develop a
fundamental trust in others, and others will place their faith and trust
in you, for trust begets trust.
It
is not appropriate to sacrifice your dreams and desires for another –
or for the people in your life to make sacrifices for you. There must be
a common goal with everyone involved participating in an agreed upon
manner – sharing the load and reaping the rewards.
Each
of you belongs to a huge, complex Soul family, and you have surely
played many diverse roles with each other down through the ages. The
people you are involved with in this lifetime, or who come into your
life so you can learn the “lessons of life,” are a part of a greater
ongoing cosmic drama. When you judge another, you need to be aware that,
in truth, you are only judging yourself. You have played all the parts
during your journey throughout this universe: lovers, friends, mother,
father, sister, brother, son and daughter. You are integrating all the
attributes of the multiple parts you have played; the strength and
wisdom of a father; the gentle nurturing and loving care of a mother;
the passion, commitment and companionship of a lover; the steadfast
loyalty of a friend; and the joyful, light-hearted interactions between a
sister, brother, son or daughter.
It
is the time of reuniting, of coming together − the beginning of
returning to ONENESS. You can no longer hide behind a cloak of fear or
isolation, beloveds. It is time to make a conscious commitment, first to
yourself and to your God Self, and then to those around you with whom
you are destined to experience the “dance of new life.” You must make a
conscious, detailed agreement within yourself about what you desire and
expect from those around you, and then you must be open to discussing
your desires and expectations with all the people with whom you
interact. In the future, as relationships unfold, deeper and deeper
levels of understanding and commitment will blossom forth, for everyone
will be willing to speak from the heart with Spirit as their guide,
rather than the ego.
As
many of you know, I have been honored to give many of you personal
“galactic readings” over the years. It has been my great pleasure, and I
must state that it has also been a blessing and a gift from my beloved
messenger, for it has taken up much of her time and energy to bring
forth these messages to you. During these times of great change and of
great opportunities, I am sending an open galactic reading to you all so
that you may know how very special you are, and the wondrous gifts that
await you.
Dearly
beloved: It is wondrous to watch as you remember and bring forth all
the gifts and wisdom you have stored within your brain structure. You
have such vast experience to draw on, dear one, not only from your
sojourns in the higher realms, but from your earthly experiences, as
well. It is time for you to remember that the Earth is not your home.
You have soared throughout this Universe, and you have always eagerly
stepped forward to volunteer for a new assignment, no matter how
difficult. Your earthly experiences have been a wondrous variety of
cocreative endeavors, and you have made slow but steady progress toward
your true identity as a Being of Light. It is time for you to realize
that you are much more than just the identity you chose in this
lifetime. You and those like you are being given an opportunity to
integrate the multiple Facets of yourselves, and by doing so, you will
begin to see how truly powerful and wise you are. All of your trials,
tests and seeming failures have made you the shining, beautiful
Spirit/human Being you are today. When you teach, you teach from
experience, and you will show by your example how any obstacles can be
overcome – that others, like you, can triumph over any adversity.
This
is the time when your Soul has reached the furthest most point of Its
journey of separation, and it is now ready to begin the journey of
“Reunion and Integration” once more. Your Soul has gradually been
infused with a Divine discontent, which slowly filters into your
conscious mind and emotions, and you begin to turn inward in order to
tame the ego and reconnect with the Soul, your OverSoul and the multiple
Facets of your Higher-Self. You now have the potential to connect with
the many Facets of your Soul family, your Higher Self, your many
OverSouls, and ultimately, your God Seed Atom (I AM Presence). At a
cosmic level, the Supreme Creator is now sending down the radiance of
Itself via the Great Central Suns. This energy is being filtered down
upon Earth in great bursts of Living Flame of Life via the Sun of your
solar system.
Your
greatest desire for this lifetime has been to integrate the many Facets
of your Beingness; however, first, they must be healed and harmonized
so that they can be filled with Light. In this way, you will not have to
experience the discomfort, the challenges or the karmic interactions of
the Third- / Fourth-Dimensional experience, for that is the old way. As
you allow your Divine Self to OverLight and guide you, more and more
inspired thought will come to you. There are many ways to allow Spirit
to manifest through you; just allow it to happen naturally, dear one.
What
brings you joy and satisfaction? How do you wish to serve? There are
many ways and you have many talents (more than you will acknowledge),
but the choice is yours. Just remember it should bring you joy and make
your heart sing as you offer others the gifts that have been given you.
Your reward will be the Light in their eyes, and the joy they express as
they, too, allow the integration of Spirit to create miracles in their
lives.
It
is time to let go of the painful past. It is time to claim your
mastery, to create your own version of paradise, and then to teach
others to do the same. Help those who come to you to heal their
emotional wounds and their physical bodies, and then they will be ready
to listen to the nudgings of Spirit. We all are in the times of great
change that have been foretold for thousands of years. You carry within
the refined vibrational frequencies of the future, and you CAN make a
difference. Draw the Love/Light of Creation from your Divine Self, use
what you need to bring yourself into harmony and vibrant health, and
then allow your gentle heart to radiate the beautiful glow of loving
energy to others.
Focus
on what is right in your world, look for the best in those around you,
and that is what you will reinforce and help to create. You can change
the world around you, one thought at a time.
You
have wonderful angelic guides just waiting to assist you. Call on them
and together you can create miracles to share with others. Allow us to
assist you in fulfilling your mission and to nurture you with our love. I
AM ARCHANGEL MICHAEL.
Transmitted through Ronna Herman Vezane * STAR*QUEST*
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