Note: The twin flame experience is absolutely fascinating from an
energetic perspective and so perfectly organized, while the human part
of us struggles with it intensely. This article contains a lot of
information that can be quite overwhelming at first. Take your time to
integrate it, feel what resonates. You might discover that each time you
come back to it and re-read it that you will find more information and
getting a fuller picture.
When we read about twin flames, the information beyond the
romantic idea usually is all about finding the energetic balance. That
is only half of the truth. Twin Flames are not only here to balance
their spiritual energetic aspects. They are mainly here to embody the
new energetic templates of unconditional love. And that era has just
begun.
“I have done so much energetic balancing work, I have connected with my twin regularly energetically in meditation, I have
let go so many times, etc, etc… and yet… my twin flame is nowhere to be seen in the physical.” Sounds familiar?
There is a very common misunderstanding and information widely spread
amongst twin flame groups. That twin flames need each other to be whole
and that this is the reason why they have to re-unite eventually. This
is exactly where many remain stuck. With this idea in mind, everything
they do, they only do for the sake of reaching union. Guess what…. That
is a conditional belief and behavior based on lack: “If I do all this
work, I will reach union.” As long as we are still thinking we need to
reach something, we are not acting from a place of wholeness and are not
in the NOW, but we are coming from a place of lack and fear. The key is
to find the balance within and reaching a state of being truly
unconditional. A state, when we do not feel any need or attachment any
longer, when we do not feel we need to reach something to be complete.
When we are not attached to any certain outcome but open to all
possibilities, including union.
“The key is to find the balance within and reaching a state of being truly unconditional.”
Of course, this is easier said and done, and we all know how
challenging this journey is. How often we go through the intense ups and
downs, asking ourselves why the heck we have to experience this and if
this ever ends. And yet, the more we learn about ourselves, the more we
learn about the dynamics and true purpose, the easier it becomes to
navigate. The highs increase, the lows get less. Up to a point when we
are able to not only hold the higher fifth dimensional frequencies, but
also embody them in a way to inspire and assist many others to go
through the ascension process. In order to be able to do so and to fully
enjoy life again, we need to rediscover our wholeness, creating the
sacred union within. To have an harmonic dance of the masculine and
feminine energies within us, and be able to fully express them through
our physical body.
Physical twins are made of the same make-up (DNA-wise), they are two
individuals that are able to enjoy and live their life on their own
without needing the other, and yet they have a close connection through
their whole life. Just like physical twins, energetic twins (twin
flames) also learn throughout their journey to create this independence
without ever feeling disconnected from the energetic twin. The
experience of the energetic connection changes over time. The more inner
balance is reached, the lighter and more empowering it feels. Energetic
twins do have more options physically, how the connection will play
out, as they do have different genetic designs, so in human form they
are no siblings. The connection could become anything in an embodied
manifested form – whether as a partnership, a friendship or remaining a
spiritual connection. This all depends on the agreements that have been
made, what choices are made with the
free will
of the individuals (what timeline, altered reality is chosen) and what
kind of service to human ascension is provided by the energetic pairs.
And that is what we always need to be aware of, although the human ego
mind loves to remain attached to the idea of
“the One”
in physical form. The ego mind loves to identify with things and
people, and yet it remains a fact: Twin flames are energetic twins, not
physical twins, they are not attached to one human body. This is the
last big attachment and condition to overcome to reach complete freedom
and balance within. The ego will fight against this idea, will judge,
blame, justify to remain attached to this one last anchor to hold on to
in the big chaos we find ourselves in. And yet, only if we let go of
that idea, things can unfold beautifully in a beyond magical way.
It is quite interesting, that the most important aspect of the twin
flame journey is hardly ever written about. The EMBODIMENT of the new
templates for unconditional love and connections, relations with a
partner and other people. Twins are able to share these new codes with
everyone that comes into their field as soon as they have reached the
sacred union within. We show how we can relate to others without any
conditions, expectations, attachments or pain. We are fully anchored
into the NOW moment, fully present with others, sharing amazing
connections and experiences. We open hearts in an instant, as soon as
people come into our field. And that is what we are here for. To assist
people finding their way into New Earth. Same planet, different
frequency, different experience. And we can only assist because we know
what people go through. We have experienced it ourselves. I have written
about that and summarized the purpose
in this blog from 2016.
“So, but what about reunion”, our ego will ask. The twin flame
dynamics and the way they incarnated are set-up in a very clever way.
Because the idea of having found the ultimate partner is what keeps us
going to go through all the pain and despair. Until we reach a point
where we are able to navigate on our own. Until we realize that there is
so much more we did not see or understand before and that our life
transforms in ways that were way beyond our human imagination.
The embodiment/physical reunion as a pair is only possible when the
individuals have reached full alignment and balance within of
masculine and feminine energies
and have shifted fully into the higher frequencies of the
fifth dimension. And that simply has not happened yet, because the
energetic environment and template for planet earth was not established
and completed until the year of 2017. Even
those twin flame couples that have “reunited”
are not in full 5D embodied union yet, and are still struggling with
the inner balancing and ascension symptoms while permanently balancing
with the partner as well. We are now seeing the first more feminine
counterparts (not gender based) reaching this inner alignment and
balance. Only when this inner balance is reached by the more feminine
part, the heart opening process can be kicked off for the more masculine
part. That is just how energetic principles work. The feminine goes
first. So we will have a “Sex and the City 5D” party for a while, with
many feminine “single” counterparts holding space in 5D for the
masculine to follow. Again, this does not automatically mean it leads to
physical reunion and a romantic partnership. The cool thing is: When we
reach that state of inner wholeness, it does not matter anymore.
Because by then, we have experienced that we can share magical
experiences and connect with others in beautiful ways, too. So what does
it mean at this point? It simply means that now the masculine twin
flame collective will be pushed into their awakening, inspiring the
human collective to follow along with it.
“We will have a “Sex and the City 5D” party for a while,
with many feminine “single” counterparts holding space in 5D for the
masculine to follow.”
This alignment and shift happens on two levels: The spiritual level
(the energy centers above the heart), and the earthly level. (the energy
centers below the heart). The heart to heart connection is already
established by the twins energetically, as this is where the “split
soul/energy field” still is connected. How the twin flame journey plays
out for the different individual pairs, is depending on their individual
energetic mix and set up. So there is no “one fits all” process.
In order to understand all of this better, we have to take a look
into the process of evolution/creation and into the characteristics of
the masculine and feminine energies taking into account the different
levels (spiritual level and earthly level) and the different energetic
bodies (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical).
The Process of Evolution / Creation
In the beginning is chaos. The sea of possibilities we swim in is the
spiritual feminine (Shakti, Yin, Life Force). The spiritual feminine –
our intuition, does nothing but float in this sea and scan all
possibilities being open to all options. She feels intuitively what
resonates and what feels good. When we look into the string theory, this
is when photons are still wave patterns. That is when synchronicities
take place. When alike wave patterns align with alike wave patterns.
Yet, nothing happens as long as we just float. Until the masculine
energy joins the dance and starts observing and focusing on a
possibility. Then the photon becomes a particle. It takes form. The
spiritual masculine starts structuring the chaos, to then make a choice,
setting an intention. Instead of spraying the energy everywhere, the
masculine bundles the energy and creates powerful momentum. This choice
can be made based on love or on fear, trust or mistrust. The difference:
commitment (detached from a certain outcome) or control (attached to a
certain outcome). This choice impacts the whole manifestation of the
individual reality in the embodied form and experience in the material
world. This is the whole difference between the fifth and the third
dimension, whether we experience abundance, unity and ease, or lack,
separation and effort.
Through this choice and intention, we enter the embodiment process.
The spiritual masculine’s intention kicks off the earthly embodied flow
in form of an emotion to truly feel the creation riping. This is the
earthly feminine taking over. The moment an emotion comes in, we are
truly dedicated to the experience we chose. Creativity is initiated: The
being pregnant with an idea or project. Being patient and trusting that
everything comes together in perfect timing. Once the idea or project
is ripe and ready to be born, the earthly masculine energy takes over
again. Now it is time for action, for physical manifestation. The
earthly masculine again bundles energy to make things happen.
“It becomes obvious, that we all need to find this inner flow and balance first to become powerful creators and manifestors.”
Looking at this, it becomes obvious that we all need to find this
inner flow and balance first to become powerful creators and
manifestors. We all have our deficiencies and imbalances energetically
that we are learning to balance out in the course of the process. That
does not mean that we reach a 50:50 balance, and that is not the
intention either. A healthy 60:40 / 40:60 proportion will still leave us
with a preference and the ability to still create polarity. (More on
this you can find
here).
The spiritual feminine is the first one to go through this, and as
mentioned before, the first one’s of this group are about to complete
this process. According to the energetic characteristics and laws, there
is no other way than the spiritual feminine going first. A strong
intuition is the basis for everything else to come. Only those that are
able to see and feel all possibilities can initiate the necessary
changes to pave the way for others to follow.
“According to the energetic characteristics and laws, there is no other way than the spiritual feminine going first.”
Now having learned this, how does this apply to twin flames? Twin
flames share the same energetic field but have decided for an unequal
share of energies they will carry when they incarnate. This served to be
able to create an intense polarity to make sure they would find each
other again to initiate the earthly, human process of ascension. To make
sure they would feel such an intense pull towards each other to stay
motivated to go through this process individually. What happens though,
is that the counterparts are constantly
sucking the energy
of each other where they have their deficit.
That is why they
experience such great longing and missing. Also this is experienced by
the spiritual feminine first, as her heart stays open after the twin
flame encounter (no matter if that happened physically in the earthly
realms or energetically in the spiritual realms). The masculine heart
closes down again after the encounter. The masculine goes into a sort of
passive sucking mode, without being aware of it at all. The closed
heart causes him to remain in his old reality and the twin experience is
remembered as an intense sexual pull, towards someone that was not
meant to be any more than that. As they are no longer able to feel the
heart to heart connection, they are not able to access emotions they
experienced with an open heart either.
This individual energetic mix is different for each couple. The most
extreme ones would be what humans would label as a psychopath on the one
end (like 95% spiritual and earthly masculine: extremely conscious and a
real doer but not able to feel emotions, or have a lot of patience at
all) and the cardio-empath on the other extreme (95% spiritual and
earthly feminine, extremely intuitive, sensitive and creative, but not
able at all to focus, take decisions or get things done). In between
there are many different options in terms of distribution of energies
and combinations of energetic set ups.
There are twins that connect more
earthly / sexually / physically first and discover a connection and
flow there as never before, but they truly struggle with communicating
with each other. That shows that they decided for a strong sexual
polarity first, but not having established a mental connection yet. And
there are twins that have an amazing mental click, being able to share
and talk for hours, yet having sex with each other is downright
impossible. The only thing all pairs share is the heart to heart
connection. This also makes clear why the individual twin flame
experiences are not the same for everyone.
The Running and the Chasing
In many cases, the more spiritual feminine is more earthly masculine,
and the more spiritual masculine is more earthly feminine. That also
explains the very common running and chasing dynamics that often take
place between twin flames. While the spiritual feminine aches to be with
the other person, her strong immature earthly masculine desperately
wants to make it happen and fights for it (chasing). She is not (yet)
able to stay focused on her own process (deficit of spiritual masculine
energy) and has no patience to let things develop in their natural way
(deficit of earthly feminine energy).
The running on the other hand is a very feminine fear reaction of the
immature earthly feminine (flight or freeze response), getting into a
place of not having to take action, but rather distract oneself by
focusing on other projects (spiritual masculine), to not have to deal
with all the possibilities with regards to the twin connection.
Only when we have all of these parts back in a healthy balance
within, and the individuals are able to navigate the process of creation
from a place of love on their own, they are ready to enter the new
phase of co-creation. Then it becomes a sharing and amplification of
powerful individual energies, instead of pulling and sucking the energy
of the partner and vice versa. Only when the formerly stronger spiritual
feminine has found this inner balance, she has reached a state
energetically, where she no longer needs to suck the energy of her
partner, and therefore, she no longer provides energy to her counterpart
anymore either. The vicious cycle of sucking energy from each other is
broken through. And that is the point when the masculine counterpart
starts feeling the void and is pushed into his own process of awakening.
Only when the energy he was passively sucking from the counterpart is
no longer available, he is forced to wake up and find his way to create
this energy on his own. His world will fall apart, he will feel
exhausted, incomplete and empty because of the missing energy. It will
become so uncomfortable that he will search for an answer and a solution
to find his inner balance as well.
Female and Male Characteristics
So how can I tell whether I am balanced or not in the different
parts? Here is a little overview on the balanced and imbalanced
characteristics of the masculine and feminine traits so you can see for
yourself where you stand in your own process.
When we are able to create all of the feminine and masculine traits
in the “Balance” column for ourselves, we have reached a state of inner
wholeness.
That also requires that all of our fear and belief patterns have
shifted, which I have written about in many of my blogs, so I will not
repeat it here. At this point, we have integrated our ego, our heart
center is open full time and inspires anyone coming into our field. No
matter in which dimension we are, we hold our frequency. Our mind has
shifted into parallel mode and linear time is no longer existent. Our
physical body has released all lower dimensional patterns from the
cellular memory. We are fully anchored in
the fifth dimension.
Thus, the balancing and shifting for powerful embodiment takes place
on different levels: Each energy center (former chakras), each body
(mental, emotional, physical) and earthly / spiritually. As said, the
experiences differ widely depending on the individual energetic mixes
and splits.
So what does that mean for our twin flame experience? It means that
anything is possible. In a world without conditions and expectations, we
are taking it as is, and are enjoying every single bit of it. We are
seeing the purpose of it all, even when we have a shitty day, week or
month. Our divine counterpart will always be in our heart, and all we
can feel is love and gratitude for them, for being our best trigger,
teacher and partner to support us in reaching this state of
independence. Once we don’t need them anymore, once we do not feel the
longing anymore, we know that we have shifted for good and are holding
our balance and embodying the higher fifth dimensional frequencies on
our own. As long as there is a longing and missing, we are trying to
pull energy from our counterpart, instead of creating the energy for
ourselves. Getting out of the energetic comfort zone and training those
parts of us where we are not balanced is key. This will step by step
bring you back into the place where magic is a daily business and
everything happens effortlessly.
The texts I share are always based on my intuition
(“downloads”) and/or on experiences of clients and my own. I do not
claim what I share to be the ultimate truth. I encourage you to only
take what resonates to find your own truth and wisdom. As this is
universal wisdom, I do not claim any copyright. Please feel free to
share this content as long as you keep its message complete so that the
meaning does not get twisted. Thank you. With lots of love, Vera
Ingeborg
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