The Arcturian Group Message for DECEMBER 2, 2018 by Marilyn Raffaele | Oneness of All

The Arcturian Group Message for DECEMBER 2, 2018 by Marilyn Raffaele | Oneness of All People all over the world are becoming increasingly aware of the hidden agendas of those dedicated to self service. The false beliefs and concepts that have ruled the three dimensional world for centuries are surfacing in order to be transmuted once again into energies of Light. Energy does not dissolve, but rather changes form as evolution takes place. Other planets have done it and it is now earth's turn to graduate into being a planet in alignment with other evolved planets. Do not allow the chaos of the outer scene to lodge in consciousness as reality, but rather remember that Divine Consciousness, which is all that exists, is incapable of and thus never has expressed Itself as chaos, violence, or suffering. If God did not form Itself as these things then they must only exist as false creations, manifestations of a collective mind conditioned by beliefs of duality and separation. This is the illusion that is so often spoken of. Earth and her people are real and not illusory but hypnotized states of consciousness interpret her realities falsely. This constitutes the illusion. The heat is being turned up so to speak, because those who stand to be acknowledged publicly for their self serving actions fear this exposure and are attempting to keep the status quo by means of tricks and fear tactics that have been successful in the past--anything to distract and keep the majority un-informed. Learn to stay centered, resting in that clear, cool well of contentment within, regardless of outer appearances. Watch less news, detach from 24/7 electronics, and be alert to aligning with negative discussions. If or when you find yourself in this type of situation, don't correct the others, but rather stay centered and aligned, tossing out a seed or more of truth where there is receptivity. There are times when you may be guided to join a heated conversation in order to add Light that will help to open and lift the energy. Never "cast your pearls" where they can be trampled on but rather let intuition always be your guide, which may be to say or do nothing. This is how you secretly and silently pour gentle rain of Light on the fires of confusion. This is Lightwork. There are many in the world who are spiritually ready to go deeper but who remain reluctant, hesitant to do anything that might change their comfortable three dimensional lifestyle. These dear ones usually do not open to the deeper truths without some sort of wake up call forcing them out of their comfort zone. No one incarnates without first creating a contract that they themselves draw up with the help of Guides and teachers. Spiritual contracts are agreed upon lesson plans for chosen experiences and interactions necessary for spiritual growth. Contracts can be changed, but few realize this. In spite of what third dimensional thinking promotes, no one is on earth simply to enjoy concepts of pleasure through any means available. All is proceeding according to plan, never doubt this. Physical eyes can only see the material, but you are reaching a new place by virtue of your inner work where you will begin to access higher frequencies that exist beyond the third dimension. Many of you are already doing this. Do not doubt when you begin to have deep and clear insights or have experiences that were previously unavailable to you. You are becoming YOU as old cellular memory is cleared and higher frequency Light is integrated. You are beginning to align consciously with your Higher Self who has been present in every lifetime, even though you were mostly unaware of her. Talk to your Higher Self for she/he has been lovingly awaiting your recognition since the beginning. Each day more people are awakening and although they may not voice this to those around them, they are starting to question the status quo and seek for better and more loving ways of living. The train of spiritual evolution has left the station and is moving forward. Any attempt to slow or speed up the train by running back and forth in the train cars is futile. We wish to speak of self- love. We have often spoken of love, what it is and how it is, but there remains a great need on earth for real self-love, one not based self importance and ego. Until an individual is able to love and respect self, he will be blocked from entering fully into unconditional love because he has left himself out of ONE and thus remains in alignment with separation. Humans beings are taught from birth that certain codes of conduct must be adhered to in order to be loved and accepted by society. If the parents are somewhat evolved, these codes will be primarily based in love but others are taught codes of conduct that arise out of denser belief systems. Every person brings their attained state of consciousness with them at birth because in reality you are consciousness and not just physical bodies. This effects if and how these codes of conduct are accepted and lived which is why parents should not always be blamed for the actions of their children. Every person, no exceptions, seeks love and acceptance because Oneness is the reality that underlies all creation. Realization of Oneness is what evolution is and has always been about. Every soul innately, but usually unconsciously seeks to once again experience the wholeness of realignment with SELF--Source. This is the force that drives and governs the actions of human beings in accord with their level of awareness. The love, acceptance, and sense of wholeness that every soul has sought lifetime after lifetime, is already fully present within but remains dormant and inaccessible until consciously realized. If love and acceptance is only received in negative ways, for instance from gang participation or some other organized group, desperate and un-awakened individuals will do whatever is required in order to experience acceptance and a sense of belonging. (love and wholeness) Third dimensional ideas about how to experience love and acceptance are usually promoted as being dependent on accomplishment-- concepts that often drive individuals to use any means to be beautiful, handsome, rich, strong, and powerful, etc. etc. in the belief that once these things are attained, they will finally have the sense of completeness, love, and acceptance that they seek. These dear ones often force themselves into the particular mold they believe will make them worthy, by means that often drain them of true individuality. However for some who are spiritually ready, these exercises in futility can be a part of their pre-birth contract, one designed to move them once and for all beyond seeking love outside of themselves. Drugs and alcohol are often relied upon when even after achieving human success, there remains an inner longing for more and sense of failure. These and other distractions can temporarily relieve the pain but these feelings will continue from lifetime to lifetime until that which the heart seeks is discovered within. The soul's yearning to be whole is what drives mankind's continual search for the right partner, a better job, more money, beauty, power etc. etc. What you as evolving students of truth must never lose sight of is that no one has ever or can ever be separate from love. Once this truth becomes your living breathing state of consciousness, the yearning drive to seek love and acceptance from the outer things (jobs, partners, money, education etc.) dissolves. Only God is love and when you see a loving person, know that it is God expressing ITself through them. Love exists fully present within you now--you are IT. Many who lash out physically, emotionally, mentally, and even spiritually at others have consciously or unconsciously recognized those same unacceptable qualities in themselves although they will deny this in every way possible. Self loathing is usually disguised as righteousness taken to intense levels of judgement and even violence against certain individuals or groups. This behavior is common among those who hold to strict religious rules and regulations of what is right and wrong. When these dear ones suspect or discover something within themselves outlawed by their narrow belief system, they lash out at anyone or group represents these qualities in an attempt to convince themselves and those around them that the issue is not a part of them. Because energy always seeks to align with like energy (oneness) that which is being judged, is in alignment with similar energy in the person doing the hating and judging, otherwise there could be no reaction or even awareness of the issue. Intense personal reactions to some person or group occasionally pop up even for the very evolved, causing confusion and guilt. This happens because energy from a former belief system is still resonating in cellular memory. Without judgement or guilt, utilize these types of experiences as wonderful tools for more fully examining and clearing energies you may still be holding in consciousness. As individuals become spiritually enlightened, they often experience intense guilt over past actions. This is normal as you begin to see the world with awakened eyes. Experiences are how humans spiritually grow and evolve until they are no longer needed. Do not give some un-loving action of the past power over you because it has only the power you choose to give it. All experiences are steps along the path of enlightenment and without them you and the others involved would not be where you are now. Earth school is a teaching school that begins which pre-school, moves to grade school, then high school, college, and graduate school where most of you are now earning the right to teach and assist others coming up the ladder behind you. It is never wisdom to burn down the school once you graduate or to sit back doing nothing in the false belief that you have arrived. Evolution is a group effort-- ONE individualized as the many. Rejoice in your failures and in the parts of yourself that have caused you shame. We are not saying that it is fine to continue with actions that reflect separation once you know better, but we do say that it is time to accept that you grew and learned from these experiences qualifying you now to assist others dealing with the same issues. In spite of what many paths teach, there is no right way to become more spiritual, because you already are as spiritual as you will ever be. No path, teacher, tool, or experience can make you more spiritual than you already are. Evolution is simply the process of remembering and accepting this fact until it becomes a permanent state of consciousness. If you are guided to read these messages, it means you are ready to let go and move on from the million and one concepts the world presents regarding spirituality, most of which involve looking to some person, place, or thing outside of yourself. Accept the reality of who and what you are and only ever will be. This is how you love yourself. To know self as SELF is self love. Allow any shadow parts to assume their rightful place as representative of who you thought you were at that time. Let everything that has caused you to feel "less than" fade away and Light to take its place. Everyone is only required to live their highest attained level of awareness, doing the best they can with what they know in all situations. There are some who continue to live out from an outgrown level of awareness in order to be accepted by others. Humans chose to experience separation when they picked earth as their evolutionary path. There are those on other planets who have and are evolving without third dimensional experiences. When fully aligning with the lower resonating energies of duality and separation, humans are unable to access the higher frequencies of their spiritual nature. This is the so called "veil" that prevents most humans from accessing the higher frequencies. This is rapidly changing. Every incarnating soul is aware of the "veil" before choosing "Earth School". Those of you reading these messages have weathered many three dimensional storms, lived as all races and both genders, and have experienced intense fear and suffering as well as joy and happiness throughout your hundreds of lifetimes. Because of this, those drawn to you for spiritual assistance will not tell you anything new or that will shock and dismay because you have already either heard about or experienced it in this or some other lifetime making you a teacher who embodies truth, understanding, patience, and unconditional love. We are the Arcturian Group 12/2/18 Donations are welcomed

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Soulstice Rising ~ Ascension Notes: Being Authentically You by Kara Schallock

Soulstice Rising ~ Ascension Notes:  Being Authentically You
by Kara Schallock - 13-Aug-2016


After much release, our potential now is to build new lives. This means different things to different folks, depending on where one is on their Ascension Path. As we move forward, it will feel lighter and easier in many ways. We clear more, yet it flows more easily if we don't resist. We clear more, yet it flows more easily without the resistance of digging in our heels to slow down the journey. While many say they want this shift, when it becomes so real, the same ones resist any change in their comfort-lives. While it seems to be flowing easier, we are preparing for some major calibrations in September. How this might look depends on our perspective and willingness. The best way is through, while staying true to ourselves. While much in the world is straining to pull us into the drama, we must stay within our Hearts and remain being the eye of the storm. This strengthens us and helps us be committed to our path, even while the world goes through its more difficult Transformation. There is a lot of resistance “out there,” and resistance creates pain and confusion and defensiveness. Defensiveness is a sure sign someone is holding onto their old ways of being. It's a separate ego protection.


There is still so much duality in the world, which means there still is much duality within us (remember, what is “out there” is a reflection of what is within). Just this morning I observed a so-called spiritual posting that indicated being against anything that destroys is wrong. This is duality. Any time a being is against something, they are dancing in duality, for to be against is resistance to what is. When one is for something, the energy then flows in the direction of what they are for; say, Love. So next time you judge someone or something, you are in duality and are resisting the shift to Be Love. Staying neutral helps. This doesn't mean you don't feel; you feel and know the emotion moves through. For instance, since my beloved kitty-partner transitioned I have felt such grief. I allow the grief, for then it transforms to Love and I see the Truth and in this way, I experience more Freedom to be more Love. I don't attach to grief, but I let it flow and observe it. And this is how we can be in the world but not of it.


When we have a strong Heart, we are strong within and our Souls thrive. Meditation in the Heart is the key to this strong Heart. We can read all the spiritual words in the world, but unless we integrate them, only the intellect grows strong, while the Heart remains static. When a person cries for help, no help comes unless the Heart is active and strong. When we withdraw from the external matrix, we strengthen our Commitment to evolve. When we are strong in this Commitment, that which doesn't serve us is easily transformed. Then we have more energy for self-Love and self-care. When we get pulled into the old matrix of duality, we give our energy away and there is little left within for us to stay focused in order to be a Lighthouse for all of life. Old wounds are healed and wholed and we move from depression and self-pity to the strong and enduring Heart. When we stay focused on our path of Ascension, nothing can disturb us. When we are distracted by life's ongoing drama, we lessen our focus.


When we are focused within, we empower our mastery, and it doesn't matter what "craziness" goes on in the worldly matrix. We are strengthened; not weakened. So much happens with this Strength. Our Light is stronger, our cells vibrate in a higher and brighter Light and we attract what resonates with all of who we are. This is the beginning of being crystalline...our bodies transform to Diamond Consciousness; being multi-faceted and multidimensional. We continue to rise upward in a Sacred Spiral, fully awake and aware of every thought, feeling and action; as well as that of others. Being more sensitive means we are more intuitive and feeling and therefore, our Guidance is stronger. With our Guidance (inner Guidance) we make choices that are aligned with Soul for our highest evolution. And as we rise higher, our powerful Light then helps others who are ready to awaken and be more Love.


The Light downloads continue non-stop in a steady flow. Before, we could count on some rest and time to integrate; now we integrate as we go. It really doesn't take a gateway or portal to bring them through, as there is no time in Truth. I understand though how humans are so fond of particular dates; whether it's a holiday or a gateway; humans love their time slots as though they have to celebrate or do something when the calendar tells them to. Isn't this also a part of the old matrix? Aren't all timelines and labels part of the old matrix as well? I can't tell you what's right, for that is entirely up to your own guidance and discretion. Just ponder it.


Since the high doses of Light are ongoing, stay as balanced and centered as you can. Meditation certainly helps, especially when you consciously ground to Source as well as to Earth (I see a column of Light that flows into the Crown, connects all chakras and then anchors at the core of Gaia to Her crystal cluster). Physically, everyone experiences the downloads and integration differently, according to where they are in their Ascension path. Some are sleeping deeply, while others are having very disruptive sleep (this is me and yet, I'm energized the next day...I have wondered if this is simply an ongoing experience and I will eventually acclimate to it as it continues; we shall see). I take nothing for granted, for I know we continue to shift. Headaches are different too; sometimes they are just fuzzy; some last a few days and some are fleeting. I just flow with it and suggest you do the same. You will never find the answer by wondering if it was something you ate or drank or if it's stress or something else your intellect tells you.


You may be having old memories surface. Some memories are painful and so it's easy to see them rise to be let go of. Some are pleasant, yet are you attached to the memory in some way? Let it go. You may have dreams in which someone in your past shows up; you can let those dreams go too. I have had beautiful dreams where there has been a connecting of Love, which is Forgiveness. I am always grateful for these dreams, which aren't really dreams; they're visitations. We may also recycle through what we thought was complete. There's no use in questioning it; accept and do whatever you do to let another layer go. There is no blame here it simply is how things work now; we are in a Sacred Spiral.


When we take everything we have experienced and know that we created it so that we may evolve, we free ourselves. No-one did anything to us (that's a perception), for if we believed this, then we are victims or rather, carry victim energy. We are not victims nor are we victimized. Take Responsibility for all that you have attracted. Let go of all blame and judgment. This is being true to yourself. If you believe or perceive that someone did something to hurt you, forgive and see them as a soulmate...someone who shook you awake to be more. No one can hurt you unless you carry victim energy within. Again, it's a perception. By not taking Responsibility for your creation, you are burdened forever by that other. You are not free; you carry them with you always. You may see both of you connected at the Heart in Oneness. Wouldn't this be a beautiful place if all let go of blaming others?


Let go of any roles or rules you have allowed or created. Rules and roles keep us stuck in the old. Let go of doing things out of obligation or because you always have done a particular thing or because it's an expectation of yours or of someone else's. Do things that expand your Joy. When you do things out of obligation, you become unbalanced and resentful. When you resent something or someone, everyone shuts down. Divine Service isn't an obligation; it is something you do because you resonate with it and for the Joy of it. If you feel Divine Service is a “should” in order to ascend, let it go. That is not Divine Service; there are no “supposed to's” in the New.


Know too that any time you change something, everything else adjusts, for we cannot separate one thing from another. It's like a mobile. If you cut off one item, the whole mobile bounces around until it finds its new balance. We're the same. Please don't let it stop you!


Remember that Divine Service is not necessarily a “spiritual” evocation. Divine Service is being authentically you. Being of Divine Service isn't necessarily spiritual at all, where everything that comes out of your mouth is based on the latest buzz words you've read or heard. Divine Service is being true to you, no matter what you're doing or who you're with. Divine Service is shining your Light by being wholly/holy you.

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Tired of Being a Negativity Sponge? 12 Ways to Prevent Energy Infiltration and Reclaim Your Energy By Nanice Ellis | Wake Up World

Tired of Being a Negativity Sponge? 12 Ways to Prevent Energy Infiltration and Reclaim Your Energy

26th March 2015
By Nanice Ellis
Contributing Writer for Wake Up World


Do you ever find yourself taking on the negative energy of others? If so, you are not alone. Most of us come in contact with numerous people every day – who bring us down.


We all feel it. We know when we are with someone who is high-spirited and happy or someone who is low and unhappy, but why is it so easy for others to affect us in negative ways? Some of us cannot even go into supermarkets without taking on the woes of everyone in the store. In order to shield ourselves from negative energy, we must first understand how our energy is infiltrated by others.
I worked as a crisis counselor at a well-known crisis center in New York for about seven years. I quickly figured out that if I was going to be successful at helping people, I couldn’t take on any negative energy. Because I uncovered the secret to keeping my energy clean and clear, I was able to assist thousands of people in dire need without once being adversely affected, and in fact, I consistently felt energized and fulfilled. If I can do it, anyone can.

Energy Infiltration

Whenever you encounter someone, whether in the morning rush to the bathroom or over the conference table, an exchange of energy is at play. There is your energy and there is the other person’s energy. At some point in space the energies meet. If you could be a fly on the wall, you would witness an interesting dance of vibration – with the strongest energy leading the dance. This means that if you are not centered in your energy field, your energy could be infiltrated and influenced by that of your friend, spouse, child, friend, parent or perhaps a stranger. So even if you are having a good day and you meet someone who is spewing their bad-day-energy onto you, your good day will likely turn bad.


You have been hit by Energy Infiltration.


This all happens without consciousness, but what if you actually brought a higher state of consciousness to all your interactions and relationships? What if you could be responsible with your energy and not be negatively affected by anyone’s lower vibe? What could this do for the quality of your life? And, for the quality of your relationships?


If you are going to protect your personal energy, you must first realize that your energy is your most valuable resource. In other words, how you feel on any given day is your greatest source of power and attraction. If you feel good, you are more connected to your power and to your ability to consciously create. If you feel down, you are less connected to your power and you are likely unconsciously creating – more of what you do not want. When we allow the negative or incongruent energies of others to affect our energy, we give away our power and we lower ourselves vibrationally to a level where we do not have the ability to consciously create.


This means that it is all about you, and you don’t have to change anyone but yourself.


This is why it is essential to make “how you feel” the most important part of every day, and not compromise your energy for anything or anyone. So, how do you do it?

Reclaiming Your Energy and Preventing Infiltration

1. Don’t Use Negative Emotions as Tools for Connection


It’s natural to want to connect with others, but we often do this unconsciously by matching emotions. In other words, if your friend is sad, you become sad in order to connect with her. Or, if your partner is annoyed at something, you mirror that annoyance in order to get on the same wave length. The thing is, every time we use negative emotions as tools for connection, we compromise our own energy, and even if we want to help our friend, spouse, child or co-worker, we cannot offer effective support or guidance at the low emotional level of the problem. How can you help anyone if you are suffering with them?


If your friend is depressed, you don’t need to become depressed in order to connect with him. It is possible to offer compassion and understanding without compromising your energy. If you can maintain a higher level of emotional vibration, you can be of greater service, simply by creating a safe space for your friend to express his feelings without bringing you down.


2. Let Go of Responsibility


The quickest way to be affected by another’s negative energy is to feel responsible for them or their experience. Every time you feel responsible for another, you take on the responsibility as if it belongs to you, and your body, mind and spirit responds as if you really are responsible and you must fix the problem. In other words, you take on worry, stress and pressure that belongs to someone else.


Feeling responsible for another is like accepting their baggage as your own; hence, walking around with their weight on your shoulders. How many people can you do this for without getting overwhelmed or even sick? Sometimes our illnesses are the result of carrying problems that aren’t even ours. How much of what you carry doesn’t even belong to you? Really think about this.


No matter how much you care about someone, you are not responsible for them or their issues. You are responsible for you and your experience of them, but not for them.


Don’t think that you can help someone by taking on their stuff as your own. The best help you can ever provide is through keeping your vibe high and inviting others up to meet you. They may or may not come up, but that is also not your responsibility.


Once you release responsibility, you can actually show up in a more responsive way and possibly be of service, instead of part of the problem.


3. Stop Playing Judge


The act of judging immediately connects us to the source of our judgement. This means that if the other person’s emotional vibe is low, your vibe will quickly match. Thereby compromising your energy in exchange for judgment.


As soon as you judge someone’s experience, even if it is silently to yourself, you invite the energy of their experience into your own energy field. Because the mind does not know the difference between real and imagined, judging something about another opens you up to taking on the energy of whatever you are judging, as if it is happening to you. This includes gossip.


When we allow everyone their own experiences, we don’t take on their energy or the energy of their issues. If it is not about you, keep out. Your mental interference in someone else’s life is not worth the risk to your energy.


4. Drop the Sympathy


The moment you sympathize with someone, you energetically take on the symptoms of the person you are feeling sorry for. Yes, sympathy is when you feel sorry for someone. This means that you can catch a cold over the phone or feel pain in your body when you experience sympathy for another.


Feeling sorry for someone is actually judging their experience – so when you feel sorry for someone, you lower your vibe to match theirs – taking on all that negative energy.


When you feel sorry for another, you are actually imagining that they are stuck in their predicament and they are powerless to heal, change or consciously create a new reality. How does it help anyone when you are imagining the worst?


You cannot feel sorry for someone and imagine them empowered at the same time. When you imagine others empowered, you also empower yourself and raise your own vibration.


The evolution of sympathy is compassion. Compassion allows you to maintain a space of love and understanding for others without compromising your energy in any way. Can you love someone and allow their experience without feeling sorry for them? Can you trust that their experience is somehow perfect for growth, evolution and awakening?


5. Don’t Give Anyone Power Over You


We tend to allow our energy to be influenced by those who appear to have power over us: parents, teachers, bosses, authority figures, etcetera. If someone in authority is having a bad day, and spews it on us, we don’t hesitate to accept it, or maybe we even allow these people to dictate how we feel about ourselves


When you remember that everyone is a reflection of your own consciousness, it is easy to see that no one ever has power over you. They only have the power that you give to them through your thoughts beliefs and actions.


The more you own your power, the more control you will have over your vibration – and not take on energy that does not belong to you.


6. Let Go of Thinking That You Know Better


When we think that we know better and we try to change others, we instantly allow their energy to infiltrate ours. If you don’t want anyone to affect your energy, then it is important to allow everyone their own experiences and their own choices. Don’t even have opinions about their opinions. In trying to convince someone of your “know-how,” you are likely to compromise your own energy. Remember how you feel is your most important asset – sacrifice it for nothing and no one.


7. Stop Reacting to Others


Are there people in your life who attempt to get their energy through drama? In other words, they try to invoke negative emotional responses from you, in order to “get energy.” Maybe you are even doing this unconsciously to others?


The moment you react, you give your power away and you also accept the negative energy of the person causing you to react.


In order to be angry, resentful, jealous, etcetera, you must lower your vibration, and as soon as you are an emotional match to the other person, their energy infiltrates yours.
If you want to own your energy and stay positive, it is just not worth reacting. The cost is too great. This doesn’t mean that you cannot speak your truth and set boundaries in a way that supports you and the relationship. This can be done from a space of clarity and compassion.


8. Don’t Take Sides


Others may want to use your energy to support their cause, but if it is not about you, don’t make it about you. Allowing yourself to get in the middle of another’s squabble or cause, when you know it doesn’t concern you, is basically a waste of your valuable energy. You can support others without getting in the middle, and without allowing your energy to be poisoned by another’s issues.


9. Do Not Accept Blame


Even if someone blames you or is angry at you, you don’t need to take on their energy. My five year old grandson spilled his ice cream in the car and blamed me because I hit a bump in the road. We talked about him blaming me so that he could feel better about the loss of the ice cream, but he really felt worse. People blame us all the time for things that are out of our control. Just because someone blames you, doesn’t mean you have to take it on. If you are responsible, be responsible and rectify the situation, but don’t allow yourself to be someone else’s scape-goat. You do not even need to react to the blame – just let it pass.


10. Say “No” to People Pleasing


If you are a people pleaser, you are likely very good at giving your energy away and therefore being affected by other’s energy. Because people pleasers put others before themselves, they are not responsible with their energy and therefore they become energy sponges for everyone whom they are trying to please. It is not your job to please the world. In fact, you would do much better at pleasing others if you first pleased yourself, putting your own needs and wants in first place. It is okay to say, “No” and set boundaries that create a safe haven for you to be responsible for your own energy.


11. Stop Believing Others Beliefs


When two people meet, the one with the stronger beliefs about life often dominates the energetic dance, but only if you are not grounded in your own beliefs. You may consider various beliefs presented by others, but don’t be bullied by someone who thinks that they know best. Sometimes others will even think that they know what is best for us and they try to infringe their beliefs upon us in the name of caring, but only you know what is best for you. Follow your own inner guidance.


12. Mind Your Own Business


This might be a hard one, but it is none of your business what other people think about you. You cannot please all the people all the time, but it is also not your job to please anyone. It only matters what you think, and feel, about you. As long as you try to control other people’s thoughts and feelings about you, you subject yourself to their energy. It’s like you are telepathically saying, “Please tell me how I should feel about myself today.” When you no longer have interest in what the world thinks about you, something truly amazing happens. Your confidence soars and you become super attractive – energetically and even physically. As a result, others will actually think more highly of you, but you won’t care, and that is the point!

Being Responsible With Your Energy

Most people are not responsible with their energy, but this doesn’t give you permission to be irresponsible with yours. This means being consciously responsible for the energy that you receive and the energy that you project. Once you are completely responsible with your own energy, it doesn’t matter if someone is regurgitating their energy onto you – you won’t take it. Ironically, it will also happen a great deal less.


If you do take on another’s energy, it is important to remember that once you take it on, it becomes your energy – not theirs. If this is the case, notice in what of the 12 ways above you have allowed your energy to be infiltrated. Take responsibility for it. No one can force you to take their energy. As long as you blame another, you have no power to release it – thereby giving even more of your energy away.


Over time, you can train your energy upward to a threshold where others cannot bring you down. It might take some conscious effort to get there but once you do, life flows with ease and grace and you become a beacon of love and light for others.


Here’s how you can be even more responsible with your energy:


1. Own Your Energy


It is important to know how you feel prior to all interactions, so if there is any change in how you are feeling, you can identify it, and quickly release it by saying, “This is not mine – I release it.”


2. See the Innocence in Everyone


When you look deep, we are all really innocent. Seeing everyone as innocent and doing the best they can will allow you to stay positive, and not take on the negative energies of others.


3. Get the Happy-People High


When you do come in contact with happy or high energy people, join the party. Accept the gift of positive energy – just be careful not to depend on others to feel good.


4. Practice Letting Go


Living in a state of letting go allows you to keep your energy clean and clear. When you let go, negative energy cannot stick to you.


5. Don’t Play Catch


Just because someone throws you a dirty rag, doesn’t mean you have to catch it – let it go, and it cannot affect you.


6. Look for the Beauty


We tend to look for what is wrong in others – but, instead look for the beauty, and you will align with higher and higher aspects of others. People will feel your love and respond in turn, raising your vibration and theirs.


7. Be Kind to Yourself


The world is always reflecting the feelings and beliefs that we have towards ourselves. If you want others to address you more positively, you must also commit to doing this for yourself.


8. Set Boundaries


It is okay to let people know how to treat you and even how to speak with you. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries, such as: no gossiping, no judgement, no complaining. You might say something like, “You probably didn’t know this, but I am making how I feel the most important part of everyday, so I am no longer taking part in gossip or anything that feels judgmental toward me or anyone else.” You might add, “Would you like to join me?”


9. Share Positive Energy


If you are feeling good, show it. Smile, be generous and give compliments. Live out loud. Remember, the stronger vibration dominates all personal encounters. When you out-warded share positive energy, you won’t be affected by lower vibes and those around you will actually begin to feel better. This is how you make a difference every day!


10. Project Energy


Instead of surrounding yourself with a protective energy shield, imagine Divine Energy flowing into you and overflowing from you – creating an aura of light and love all around you. Allow this powerful energy to resonate from you and affect everyone you meet.


11. Trust Your Intuition


Your intuition is a superior inner guidance system and will always show you the way. When you don’t listen to your self and you put the desires of others first, you compromise your energy and you allow the energy of others to affect you. Every time you trust your inner guidance and take action accordingly, you strengthen your ability to protect your personal energy, and therefore you naturally keep-out negative energy.

Final Thoughts

When you ultimately reach a point where you don’t take on the energy of others, you are able to connect and respond from a higher level, where it is possible to feel what someone is feeling without acquiring their pains and woes. This is the Divine Experience of Compassion. From this pristine space, you can give love without compromising or sacrificing yourself in any way. Instead of feeling drained, you feel powerfully energized and have an abundance of positive and powerful energy to offer and share.


It is through this state of Higher Love, that you are truly of service to the world.

About the author:

Nanice Ellis has been a professional Life Coach for over 17 years, successfully coaching women and men from all over the world. She is also an author, Theta Healer and Master Neuro Linguistic Practitioner.

Helping people to make quantum jumps in their lives, Nanice’s very unique coaching style is often referred to as the “Nanice Effect”. By using powerful and proven manifestation techniques, Nanice coaches people to tap into the power of the Universe and live their dreams, bridging the gap from the imagination to the realization of that dream. She works with leaders, coaches, healers and anyone who wants to live life to the fullest. You can learn more about the coaching programs offered at: Coaching Programs with Nanice.

Nanice is the author of several books, including the inspirational The Infinite Power of You! and Even Gandhi Got Hungry and Buddha Got Mad! She is also the host of radio show Chai with Nanice. Her books are available at: Nanice.com/6/Books and here on Amazon.

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NorthPoint Astrology Journal by Pam Younghans January 12 to 18, 2015

NorthPoint Astrology Journal by Pam Younghans

January 12 to 18, 2015

Highlighted Aspects:MON: Mars enters Pisces; TUE: Uranus sextile Venus; WED: Uranus sextile Mercury, Saturn square Mars; THU: Pluto square Nodes

THE LIST of highlighted aspects for the coming week is amazingly short -- perhaps a chance for us to regroup after our recent Full Moon effects. We've certainly been working with a lot of heightened energy since that Plutonian lunation last weekend.


Mars enters Pisces on Monday, which may help us ride the energy waves with less resistance and more trust -- always of benefit when we've been struggling and are feeling a bit overwhelmed. Mars will be in Pisces until February 19, giving us five weeks to settle into more intuitive, less confrontational ways of moving through the world.


URANUS forms sextile aspects with Venus and Mercury on Tuesday and Wednesday. These are not the most powerful aspects, but if we focus on tapping into their energies, they can help us be more flexible, more openminded, and more willing to allow the winds of change to blow through our lives.


However, also on Wednesday, Saturn forms a challenging square aspect with Mars. We've already talked about Mars in Pisces wanting to go with the flow, shying away from confrontation. But Saturn in Sagittarius has strong beliefs and judgments, and resists what it sees as irresponsible behavior from our more passive Mars. This can set up a conflict of ideals mid-week, and require that we find a way to reconcile the differences between our desire to be compassionate and our need to be right.


THE ENERGY of the Pluto-Uranus square is again engaged starting midweek. Pluto squares the Moon's Nodes on Thursday, acting as a catalyst for the release of issues that tie us to the past and to old patterns of reactivity. And, since Uranus is conjunct the South Node in Aries on January 20, themes that arise this week will likely carry into next.


The Nodes represent our path of spiritual evolution as we integrate the past and project ourselves into the future. With the North Node in Libra, our collective and individual goals are to find a new level of balance in life, a calmness and equanimity that is not overly swayed by issues that arise.


This is a time to focus on some of the qualities of that North Node in Libra, to do our best to stay in balance, and to soften and release the old ego structures that have kept us often in defensiveness, anger, or fear. Having Mars, the ruler of Aries, in Pisces, may be very helpful in this process of release.


And, remembering to breathe should also be helpful!


Pam
Photo: Angelic aurora over Aykhal, Russia on January 7
(credit: Ruslan Ahmetsafin, posted on SpaceWeather.com)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~THANK YOU to everyone who participated in our teleclass last week! I hope you both enjoyed and will benefit from the information shared.

A quick note about the replay link: If you registered for the class, you should have received the replay link by email Thursday night. Please check your spam folder if it is not in your inbox -- and if you're not able to find it, contact Elsie Kerns at elsie@wellnesswithelsie.com.

Also, if you missed registering for the class, you can still purchase the audio replay and slideshow -- just send me an email at pam@northpointastrology.com with "Teleclass Replay" in the subject line, and I'll reply with details.
 

“The telepathic language of the heart” by Taryn Crimi | Angelic Guides

“The telepathic language of the heart”
by Taryn Crimi | Angelic Guides
October 13, 2014


Today we would like to focus your attention on the topic of communication. There are many at this time who have great difficulty communicating their true beliefs, thoughts and feelings with those they are closest too. Many believe that in order to communicate they must use words. You have been taught that in order to understand another you must listen, but really you must feel in order to understand. It is our intention today to help shed light on this topic and discuss some of the misconceptions about how one can communicate.


The use of language through words has been used on your planet for thousands upon thousands of years, however know that this was not always the case; nor is it necessary for communication to take place. You may look to the animal kingdom who have not developed a spoken language such as your own, and yet you can watch a flock of birds take off in sync, fish swerve and maneuver through water as one unit, and elephants who communicate their location to others miles away. Many may argue that animals do communicate through sounds that are natural to them; and we would agree that yes, animals do use sound as one form of communication, however what we are suggesting is that vocal sounds are not a necessary part of communication. Communication is shared through energy, through frequency.


Regardless of whether you intend to or not, all beings share their energy with others. The thoughts that you have create a vibration, a specific frequency which is then perceived by others around you. This is also why you are able to detect if someone is being genuine and authentic in the words they speak, you instinctually pick up on the thoughts and vibrations which the other person is giving off. When a person’s words and their thoughts do not match, you can perceive this. This intricate process of translation is all done subconsciously. Just as you do not have to give your heart specific instructions on how to pump blood through your body, you do not have to consciously know how to translate another’s frequency in order for you to feel their energy.


Another example of your ability to translate energy is the communication that is made between humans and animals. You do not speak the same language and yet there is a common understanding between a human and their animal. Not because the animal has learned your language but because animals and humans alike are skilled at perceiving and interpreting the energy around them. However, because the animals have not become reliant upon a spoken language to communicate, their ability to interpret others thoughts is much more precise and therefore relied upon much more heavily.


When we send information to our messenger, we are not speaking any particular language and yet our energy is being translated into the English language. We are simply sending energy and it is being translated by the pineal gland in the brain into the English language because that is the language that our messenger speaks. However it is the heart center that is responsible for perceiving the energy of others. The mind can only translate the energy into the available words that exist within the person’s conscious mind; however the heart can “speak” all languages. This is what all of you do when you are “communicating” with another being. In many cases two humans who do not speak the same language can decipher the overall message that is being “communicated”. Not because they can understand the language that is being spoken, but because the words are not what is actually used to communicate. It’s the energy that is carried in the words.


You do not actually communicate with words, they are simply the vessel you are using to send and receive messages. Words are simply the carrier of energy; they are not the message themselves. This goes for both written and spoken words; both simply carry energy. Words in and of themselves are neutral; it is only the energy which you give them that determines the meaning behind them. We often find words to be quite limiting. The intense emotional feelings that you experience upon you world cannot be described by words, rather they are shared through energy. You cannot describe the love that you have for your child, nor can you describe the pain that is felt by the loss of a loved one.


In the higher realms there is no need for a language to be spoken. Our thoughts are shared instantly with others. We do not choose to remain in a physical reality, and therefore we do not have a physical voice to speak with nor do we have physical ears to “hear” with. We perceive our reality in non-physicality. The five physical senses are something that humans often take for granted, however when you return to the higher realms you will no longer have a physical body beyond the 5th dimension.

Without the use of a spoken language, we do not experience the misunderstandings that take place when relying so heavily on a spoken language to deliver our messages. The limits that exist in a spoken language are not able to fully convey all that the heart feels. Many arguments ensue on your world, not necessarily because of the differing of opinions but rather it is the strong desire of each person to be “heard” and understood. When everyone can truly understand everyone else on your planet, you will no longer experience the “need” for war on your world.


Your reliance on a spoken language will slowly be replaced by the ability to once again fully communicate through thoughts alone. You will find technological advances that act much like a bridge in assisting you while you regain this natural and innate ability. The wide depth and array of emotions that you are able to experience in your world cannot be expressed through your words but rather through the strong energy which you feel and therefore emit for others to perceive. Thoughts are felt, not heard.


Each human is born with the ability to fully communicate their every thought and feeling without the use of a spoken language; just as each human is also born with the innate ability to perceive the thoughts and feelings of others around them. This ability is usually not cultivated and over time with the introduction of spoken language which they then become so heavily reliant on for all means of communication; the ability fades. However know that it never fully goes away, it simply weakens because it is not used. Although few have kept the conscious ability to communicate telepathically in its fullest capacity, all of you have the ability to detect the energy in another being. A person does not need to speak for you to perceive that they are angry, sad, happy or at peace. You are able to discern another’s overall emotion simply by being in their presence. There will once again come a time when humans will not “need” to speak to one another to convey their thoughts; rather it will simply be a preference that they will sometimes partake in, yet it will no longer be a necessity.


As you continue to expand your consciousness and regain your abilities which have lied dormant within you, we ask you to remember that words are not the message; they are simply just the vessel which is used to carry the message. We remind you to rely heavily upon the feelings of the heart as they can never be deceived by the words spoken by another. To listen is to simply hear the words which one speaks, yet to understand another you must open your heart. That is where true communication lies.


We hope that this message has in some way served you,


In love and light, we are your Angelic Guides.


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Hilarion: September 7-14, 2014 | The Rainbow Scribe

 

Hilarion: September 7-14, 2014 | The Rainbow Scribe

Beloved Ones, You are now playing the waiting game, only you cannot discern the purpose of your waiting. It is time to step up to the next level of your journey. The thing you are waiting for is your own remembrance of the magnificence you are. This remembrance is coded within you and it is connected to an event in your life that will or has already taken place. How you will know that yours has been activated is by the feeling you experience that there is nothing of the old world that holds any interest for you any longer. You are more than ready to leave behind all the old programs and beliefs that were not really yours to begin with. This readiness can sometimes be experienced as depression, lethargy and apathy, the feeling that nothing will ever get better in your day to day life and that there is only chaos and dissolution that surrounds you. Know that when you are experiencing this, you will soon be moving into a higher octave and frequency.

What is called for now is to foster the feeling of gratitude and praise for every moment of your daily life. For every negating thought you have, find 10 things in your life to be grateful for and praise yourself for each one. Every time a self defeating thought surfaces from deep within, take the time to make a list of ten things that are good and are working in your life, even if it seems mundane to your perceptions. The point is to train your mind to think only empowering and nurturing thoughts so that you draw to yourself all that you desire to experience in your daily life. The work that must be done now is to love and nurture your self. Each of you is very good, even excellent, in giving to others what they need but it is now the time to daily do good to yourselves. This might seem like a chore at first and you will likely feel it is a silly waste of time but I assure you, Dear Ones, that it is crucial that you continue.

In order to live a magical life, you must BE the magic and you cannot BE the magic if you do not love and honor yourself first. A healthy love of self is required to create the life of your dreams. You must know and feel that you deserve the best life yet. You must also start on that path and get out of waiting mode, for it is yourselves that you have been waiting for, the divine within you is experiencing life as YOU! You have all the resources you need within you and this need to be tapped into. This will require daily periods of quiet stillness so that you can connect to your core essence. Even five minutes spent in stillness and meditation will reap many benefits for you and this practice will also raise your frequency level which needs to be maintained and sustained so that you can move to an even higher level.

There is always reward from the universe for sustained focus and commitment on a daily basis. As you flourish in every facet of your life, the gap between cause and effect diminishes and the flow of joyous events in your life become manifest through the magic that you embody. As you let your former limitations drop away you release yet another area that allows greater life force to fill you, nourish you and sustain you. In this ongoing releasing and cleansing process, you allow your Higher Self, your Soul, to become a more powerful influence within you and your daily life begins to radiate your true brilliance in all aspects of it. This turn of events brings more gratitude and praise, more heartfelt enthusiasm and passion to well up within you and soon you will find yourselves in a state of continual joy and bliss.

The high spirits you experience will encourage you to stay on this path and the thought of going back to lower density will be totally repugnant to you. It will also allow a powerful and joyful creative energy to fill you and work through you. The gifts you have carried within your DNA are activated and turned on and you begin to share your gifts with others around you. You gain a clarity of mind that is attuned to the promptings within your heart and you know always the right thing for you to do. These are some of the initial openings that are now occurring and they will lead to even greater abilities as they are processed. Expect the highest outcome in all that you do and most important of all, BELIEVE in yourselves.

Until next week…

I AM Hilarion

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