Showing posts with label Life Mastery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life Mastery. Show all posts

Thursday, June 18, 2020

Jennifer Hoffman : Listening is Part of Taking Action




It’s tough to keep moving forward after decades of working on the ascension paradigm and for most of us, this has been lifetimes of struggle. We’re closer than we have ever been but we need to stop looking for ‘the end’ and jumping to conclusions about when that happens.


We also need to stop jumping into action mode without listening first for the clues and directions that will guide us along the most efficient and least painful path. We receive lots of instructions and support but if we are looking for the end of this road we will miss the great information that will actually help us move beyond the suffering. Let me explain.


When I moved to my new house in Greensboro I also got new phone service with a new company. Now there’s always a learning curve with technology and phones are no different, even land lines. To record customer sessions I have to flash to a second line and dial into the recording service. For the first few weeks when I dialed in and it took a long time for the service to connect. I thought my phone service wasn’t working and I was getting a little desperate. I needed to have this option to record customer sessions. If it didn’t work, what was I going to do?


One day, while I was waiting for the phone service to switch over, the automated ATT voice came on and I couldn’t dial through it, as I normally did, because I was multi-tasking. This time I heard the entire message, which said, ‘dial the number and press the pound key’. Press the pound key? I didn’t know I had to do that. So I tried it, I dialed the recording service and included the # key and was connected to it immediately.


In my haste to get the recording started I had not been listening to the entire ATT message and had missed an important part – using the #key to start the connection to a second number. Instead, I dialed the number and waited, and waited, and waited, for the connection to begin.  Now I do it the ‘right way’ of the time and it works great. The process wasn’t broken, I just had not listened before I acted.





In our haste to be finished with a process, whether that is a personal life challenge, or the current craziness we’re seeing in the world and the spiritual battle it is part of, we do not consider that listening is an important part of taking action.


The more we listen, the easier it is for us to hear important information that will help us. Sure it feels better to keep pushing forward because taking action relieves the stress, frustration, and makes us feel like we’re doing something and moving the energy. We’re taking control while the Universe is missing in action.


But taking action without asking the proper questions and listening for the entire answer means we’re acting on partial information, assumption, conjecture, and missing out on some suggestions that may be very helpful.


I know it’s hard to keep the faith right now and the frustration at seeing so much darkness while we have worked so hard to expand the light is demoralizing. But remember that we’re seeing the dark because of the light and not only are we seeing it, so is everyone else.


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Keep those lights shining and listen for all of the instructions before taking action so you make your path easier,  your burden lighter, and can takesome time to see just how much light has been expanded in the world and how many people are awakening now.


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Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Jennifer Hoffman: The Re-Weaver – A Story About Healing and Purpose




We have spent so much time being strong and supportive for others, ensuring that everyone has what they need to become healed, whole, and complete, and we wonder when it’s our turn. Many of us have had important soul contracts to fulfill in the first part of our life and healing has been the focus through which they are fulfilled.


Through our healing efforts we have helped others release their past and invent the future, preparing them for the lifetime work they had to do.


Now that this work is done it’s time for us to ‘re-invent ourselves’ from being caretakers and supporters to being strong, successful, and powerful in our own lives. How do we do that and what does it mean? It is a hard question to answer because it means re-defining how we look at ourselves and what we do with our time, energy, and gifts.


A reader once wrote to me “I have never created anything worthwhile for me in my life. My path is to help others achieve their success.” She wrote that she had spent her life empowering others and ensuring their success and she wondered when she would be able to do something for herself.


She has been doing something for herself, finding joy in others’ success. I am sure that others have appreciated her help but can she gain the same amount of appreciation if she is fueling her own dreams, goals, and desires? She may also have a fear of failure and a lack of confidence.


It will require courage to turn those efforts to her own life where, in her mind, the stakes are higher, success is not as certain, and she may find out what she has always feared, that she is not capable of success or (I don’t think that’s true but she will have to figure that out by herself). 


She is like someone I knew years ago, a woman who was a ‘re-weaver’, she fixed holes in people’s garments and made them look new again. In those days we had to wear nice suits (and pantyhose) to work and I owned several wool suits. One day I saw a small moth hole in one of my wool suit jackets and I didn’t want to get rid of the whole suit just because of one small hole.


Someone suggested that I take it to the re-weaver, who would fix the hole for less than the cost of replacing the suit. So I took my jacket to her shop and she said it would not be a problem to fix the hole and the jacket would look new again.


A few weeks later I picked up my beautifully repaired jacket. The moth hole was gone and it did look new. I asked her how she did that and she showed me her workspace and talked about her technique. Working with tiny needles and a powerful magnifying glass, she took threads from the garment’s hem and seams and used them to fill the holes, matching the pattern and weave so that fabric looked new. She took pride in her work and had been doing it for decades. In fact, she was very well respected and people from around the country would send her their clothes to be mended.




But the work took its toll on her body. Her back was hunched from many years of bending over her  work, her hands were knotted witharthritis, and her eyesight was poor. She wore thick glasses and her skin was pale because she spent so much time indoors. I asked her why she did this work and she said that her father, who was a tailor, had taught her, telling her that people would always need their clothes repaired and with this skill she would always have work.


When I asked her if she had wanted to do anything else her eyes got misty and she said that she had always wanted to be a dancer. But, she added, her father did not approve of that so she did what he wanted her to do.


She never asked people how they ruined their garments, she just quietly fixed the damage and sent them back looking new again. I wondered how many people appreciated her skill, expertise, and dedication, whether they thought about how much work it took to fix the damage they had done, whether it was careless or accidental, or how the re-weaver had spent much of her life doing this for others.


Who did it for her? Who was there for her when she needed re-weaving in her life?


As I got to know her she shared some of her life details. She had never married or had children, had cared for her father after he was widowed until he died and she had inherited his shop. The shop, customers, and work were her life. I wondered whether she had ever stopped to think about how she so carefully and painstakingly fixed others’ mishaps and if she ever wanted to stand up one day and decide that she was going to do something else.



Did she ever think about how much she did for others and wonder when the day would come that it was time to reinvent herself and start living her own life?


It may have been too late for her to become a dancer but she could still learn how to dance.
Although the re-weaver has passed on, I’ve thought of her many times over the years. One of her gifts to me, besides fixing my suit jacket, was to remind me to pause before I take on the task of re-weaving for others. Is this something I should do or can I step back and let them fix their ‘holes’ by themselves? Sometimes others need to learn from fixing their own problems even though I believe I could do it so much more quickly, easily, and efficiently. But is that what I want to do and while I am inventing their future or reinventing their life, what is happening to mine?


It’s hard for us to be ‘selfish’ and self-centered and we have such negative opinions of those concepts, but what they really mean is to have our focus within our self, asking what is good for us, questioning how every situation applies to our own life path. When we allow the focus of our actions be with us first, we consider our needs, instead of rushing in to take care of others. It’s a great feeling to re-weave someone’s life but it can become a habit that we fall into and then can’t get out of. We have to remember that everyone is powerful—we all have the same source of power even if we don’t think others are acting in very powerful ways or using their power very wisely.


Like the comment from the person who creates for others what she doesn’t create in her life, we can support and encourage others for a while but must eventually come back to our center and ask why we feel we must do for others what we do not do for ourselves. We can be the eternal re-weavers, fixing others’ damage, holes, and gaps, or we can reinvent ourselves and create everything we want in our own lives and then let others light their light from ours which blazes so brightly.


This happens when they are ready to also shine brightly because they are ready to re-weave their lives, reinvent themselves, and believe that they deserve and can have a new powerful and empowered future.


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Monday, September 25, 2017

Aim for Awe-Filled, Expect Some Awful by Jennifer Hoffman | Enlightening Life





Have you ever wondered what happens when you make a choice, either consciously or unconsciously, to make some changes in your life? Here is how the process works. 
Finish this sentence:  What I want now as my awe-filled outcome is   __________________.


With that sentence you just put out a commandment telling the Universe that you want this amazing, awe-filled outcome for your life.  Then, everything in your life which is not aligned with that outcome will pop up so you can choose whether you want to keep its energy or not. While you expect awesome and amazing results, you seem to get just the opposite, an awful situation, and it can be very overwhelming. What happened? The eventual, awe-filled outcome will be what makes you happy, but there may be a few awful moments before that happens, as you clear the path of whatever is currently making you feel awful, unhappy, or unfulfilled in some area of your life.


We often issue invitations to clear energy pathways without an awareness of the bigger picture that is involved. A desire for change has two aspects, clearing the existing energy pathways and setting the energy for the new ones, which involves sifting through and shifting the old energy from the past. That’s why an intention for a new beginning takes us back into the past we thought we already cleared.  We did, sort of, but now that we have a new intention, everything from the past that has a mis-aligned connection to this new intention must be cleared.


Our belief that this happens in a divine way, where everything lines up and it’s all a lovely process gets us into all kinds of doubt and confusion because the process of becoming dis-aligned with our current reality and establishing new levels of alignment is rather complicated.



So a desire for a new job may involve a layoff, demotion, a firing, or a choice that you hadn’t anticipated. You may be scared, upset, angry, or feel powerless and out of control when this happens.


Why can’t this just be easy? But there’s a reason and a purpose for this, to clear any existing fear, beliefs, unworthiness, and memories of past experiences to help you claim your power. It would be easy if you just stepped into a wonderful new job and that may happen. In the meantime, any prior experience of powerlessness and fear will come up to help you release those connections.


To solidify the energy shift, can you take what appears to be a challenge and create something powerful from it? It isn’t easy to do when you’re scared, but it is necessary if you are going to learn how you can use your power to create a miraculous, higher energy outcome in any situation.





There’s a way to do the transition quickly (and that is a very relative term), and that’s by constantly reminding ourselves of the transformation and outcome we’re aiming for. Maintaining a laser sharp focus on the outcome and seeing how everything is working towards the creation of that outcome, no matter what it appears to look like, is critical. The things that appear to be taking us out of our flow are actually helping us to stay within it and clear all of the old, stagnant, limiting energy from it. It’s easy to stay in our positive, high energy space when things are easy, but can we maintain our frequency when things get challenging?


Can we ride out the temporary storm so we can enjoy a more aligned long-term result that is the whole and complete fulfillment of our intention?


We can expect awful moments to happen when we’re trying to create awesome and awe-filled outcomes but we don’t have to stay in the ‘awful’ energy. Everything serves a purpose in creating our outcomes in some way, we just have to remember that the challenges also contribute to the outcome, instead of limiting it. Energy is always moving and while it can feel like we’re trying to herd cats, energy follows intention, and it flows to the area of greatest emotion. As long as we remember to keep our aim steady and constant, we’ll get through the awful moments and reach our awe-filled outcomes.

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Thursday, June 19, 2014

Enlightening Life: Q&A: Why Do I Choose Men Who Don’t Love Me? by Jennifer Hoffman

Attention ladies...




Enlightening Life: Q&A: Why Do I Choose Men Who Don’t Love Me?
by Jennifer Hoffman



Dear Jennifer:  There are painful situations in my life that keep repeating themselves and after reading your blog for a year, I know that it is something I am creating. Even though I know this, it doesn’t make it less painful. After twelve years of broken hearts, I would really like to solve this, so I don’t have to go through it again.

I am always falling in love with guys who are not interested in me in one way or another. Sometimes I get involved with them, but even then they don’t want to be in a long term relationship with me. And in the end, I am always rejected. Someone told me that I attract this because I do not love myself enough, so I am working on this and making progress.

But I am still being rejected by the men I am attracted to. I wonder if it has to do with my father, who left us when I was three months old. He never cared about me, was never available, and I wonder if that is what created a belief that I cannot have a relationship with a man who loves me. I thought I resolved this in therapy but maybe not, because I still have not created a loving, long term relationship for myself. How can I change this and choose a man who loves me?

Jennifer’s Answer:  First I want to clarify that the men you choose do love you and there are two issues here. The first your beliefs, the second is your mirror. People mirror our beliefs back to us and that is all they can do. They cannot be for us what we cannot be for ourselves. The men you choose mirror your belief that men will leave and cannot be dependable, and that they don’t love you enough to stay with you.

Let’s look at the belief that men leave because for you, this is true. Your father left but since you were so young at the time, I think you are carrying your mother’s energy around this issue, and not yours. By picking men who will leave and hoping that they won’t, you are trying to heal her energy through your actions. You know that won’t work and it isn’t working but in a way it is, because you are always choosing men who prove that your belief that men leave is true. To create a long term relationship with someone who will stay with you, you must change that belief, which takes courage and a willingness to risk getting your heart broken.

Then there is the belief that you are not worthy of having someone who stays and even if you are working on having greater self love, this belief will continue to attract men who will make it true, until you change it. You cannot expect someone who will leave to not leave, so he heals your belief for you. This is what you are doing and it will always turn out the same way because you are choosing the same kind of person, someone who will leave you.

Instead, you must have the courage to risk the possibility of being hurt by someone who you believe will not do that and know that even if the relationship ends, you will be OK. But you are afraid and the fear that he will leave and you will be alone and unloved is too great, so you will unconsciously choose someone who will leave to make your belief true, rather than risk finding someone who might stay and hurt you anyway. It’s easier to choose someone who makes your beliefs true and not be surprised that your heart gets broken, rather than have that happen with someone you trust will stay and he breaks your heart anyway.

Self love is only part of the issue here, it is more about beliefs than anything else. Can you believe that men stay, that they are dependable, can love, value, and appreciate you, that they are there for you, and that even if they don’t do all of those things, that you are powerful enough to move on and find someone else? These are strong fears and they can be healed, but only when you decide that you are willing to open your own heart widely enough to let yourself experience love, in spite of your fears, and be in a relationship that you can has a long term chance, instead of one that is going to fulfill your beliefs that all relationships end.



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