My dear friends, we love you so very much,
There
is a mistaken notion upon your planet, that love hurts. Love never
hurts dear ones! Love heals! Love transforms! Love uplifts! Love makes
you feel like the most beautiful, amazing, being that you can be! Love
connects you with your very essence.
Why then, is it so hard to love upon your planet earth, and why do so many of you feel you must hurt in the name of love?
We hear this question all the time and the answer is rooted in a deep misunderstanding about the nature of love.
Humanity believes love is something you "do," and while we celebrate expressions of love, we know Love is a state of being.
Humanity teaches you that love is something you "earn"
and yet we know that Love is already there for you, living within you,
in every moment of every day. It is the very essence of creation,
available for all of you without condition. You are all worthy of love.
Humanity believes that love is something that requires reciprocation,
yet here in the Heavens we love unabashedly whether we are loved in
return or not. We know Love is the energy that lives and breathes within
us and needs nothing in return. Love is our nature. Love is your
nature. Loving feels good. Withholding love hurts.
Love is the state of being in which the Light within you sees and acknowledges the light within another.
So
how do you apply this upon your earth, dear friends? We know, that
beneath any hurt and pain, you truly desire to love! You truly wish to
experience your own light, and your own innate goodness. In your deepest
truth, you want to see and appreciate the light and goodness within
others.
However, you also want to feel good, and if you do not
work to love yourself and grant yourself a life that supports your joy,
you will look to the outside world for love and you will "fall" in love
with anyone or anything that makes you feel good.
Now, there is
nothing wrong with this. It is human and it is still a form of love.
Nonetheless, whenever you worship false idols, whenever you give your
power to be happy to another person or thing, you also grant them the
power to take it from you. You love them when they make you feel good
and you stop loving them, or worse, hate them when they can no longer do
so. This dear ones, is what human beings call love, but is in reality a
small projection of the true, deep, and abiding Love that is available
to you all, right here, right now, in all of creation.
Take a
breath. Ask yourself, "Do I love me exactly as I am right now, or do I
tell myself I must earn my own love... by being prettier, more handsome,
smarter, kinder, wiser, etc.?" Take a breath and accept yourself and
your answer with compassion and without condition. You have just begun
the journey to self love.
Ask yourself, "Do I treat myself the way
I would if I were with a lover who adored me? Do I care for myself,
maintain my life, and seek to be joyous, interesting, happy, as I would
if I had someone to impress? Am I maintaining myself as if I am a person
who is loved and adored?"
"Am I talking time to connect to
whatever I consider to be a higher, more loving force in the Universe?"
"Do I ask my angels for help frequently and sit in reception of their
love?"
"Do I take time to listen to my own heart and care for its
longings," the way I would hope a lover would listen to me? "Do I
nurture my dreams," the way I would want someone else to do? Am I giving
myself the Love that I seek, or am I waiting for someone else to do
that for me?
These question apply whether or not you are in
relationship. These questions will show you the areas in your life in
which you can choose to love yourself more deeply, and therefore where
you will free yourself from the bondage of expecting others to provide
for you, what you will not. There is an omniscient, omnipotent,
omnipresent Creator that wants to help you. There is a Love so vast and
all encompassing that you could never possibly be alone. Angels wait "in
the wings" to assist you.
Rather than waiting for another to love
you as you wish, whether it be the fantasy "love of your life," or your
spouse sitting in the other room, make a decision right here and right
now, that you will treat yourself as if you are the love of your life.
Rather than waiting for life, or others to behave as you wish, find the
good in the here and now. Challenge yourself to love yourself and life
exactly as it is, and then from that present moment of acceptance,
challenge yourself to make the next moment better.
Then, from this
fullness of Love within yourselves, truly loving another becomes
possible. Then you can accept others exactly as they are.
If you
learn to cultivate your own joy and your own well-being, then you can
accept the gifts of others when they are offered, but you can also bring
love from your depths when others cannot. You will no longer need to
feel a lack of love, because you have connected yourself the eternal,
endless Source of Love itself.
This Love is a true, deep, and real
state of being in which you allow yourself and everyone else to be
exactly as they are and simply decide if you want to "dance" or not.
Love
dear ones, does not hurt. Love accepts. Love trusts. Love heals and
transforms. Love is who and what you are made of... and no one has the
power to take this from you. Love yourselves. Fill up your cup... then
you will be able to truly love.
We love you always, without
condition or expectation. We experience our eternal abiding connection
to the Source of Love itself and so whether you love us or hate us, we
love you... simply because we know that is our nature, and that kind of
love is what feels good at all times.
God Bless You! We love you so very much.
-- The Angels
Message From Ann
I'll
never forget a time in my thirties when I was sobbing, talking to my
angels. "I love him! I love so much I hurt..." sniff, sniff. "That's not
love!" The angels were very firm with me. I got offended. "What do you
mean?" I protested. That's not love, they said. That's longing. Love
feels beautiful. They were right. I was crying that I loved someone when
in reality, I was pining away for this person to love me back. The
angels told me to stay away from this person completely and work on
myself instead. It was tough love on their part, but it was love. They
saw the light within me and didn't want me to torture myself looking for
a cheap substitute in another who couldn't offer it.
And thus
began my exploration into self-love... which in truth is an exploration
into the true, beautiful connection that we have with the Divine as it
lives and breathes within us. Now, finally, a few decades later I truly
know how to love. And it doesn't hurt. It feels amazing.
Just a
few days ago I felt compelled to comment on a string of nasty comments
under a YouTube video. I gently but firmly reminded others that all that
matters is being loving and kind, more so than being right. A rather
angry gentleman responded to my comment by saying, "Shut up you stupid
$!*!!" I won't repeat the word. It was too vulgar. I felt only
compassion for this man. Only a hurting soul could make such a childish
and wounded attack. I wrote back, "Thank you and God bless you." I meant
it. I didn't accept his pain into my soul. I sent love. "Thank you for
showing me you need love. Bless you." He didn't know what to do. It
changed his energy. I felt it. He wrote back more kindly and even with a
bit of humor.
The more I enter the mystical realities, the less
I want to do anything other than let love flow through my being. It
hurts to withhold love. It hurts to expect or long for others to love me
back if they don't. It feels amazing to create love in my every day
life for myself and for others. It feels amazing to simply accept life
as it is and myself too and make my decisions based from that very
uncomplicated reality. I fill my own cup by doing simple things I enjoy
every day. I share when I feel full because it feels good. I hold my
head up high whether others like me or not. As Rachael Ray, the famous
cook once said when an interviewer asked her what she thought about a
"hate site" dedicated to bashing her, "Everyone is entitled to their own
opinions." The less attached we are to others' opinions of us, and the
more true to our own heart we strive to be, the happier we become.
I no longer absorb, or feel the need to change or even stay around
unloving behaviors. I can love someone without liking their behavior. I
can love someone with whom I want no more interaction. I am loving the
light withing their being, respecting their right to act as they do,
while also respecting my desire to spend personal time only with those
that uplift my soul. It is a balancing act. It took many years working
with angels before they convinced me that honoring my own heart could be
loving even if meant someone else might not like my choices. I took
awhile to truly believe that when we love ourselves, and honor
ourselves, everyone grows. We serve souls, not egos.
Love doesn't hurt, but it does expose the unloving behaviors in ourselves and others... the ones that do hurt.
Even when people cannot love me the way I wish, or don't act as I would
like, this light that I have worked to find within myself, rises up and
helps me sees their innocence and their need to listen to their own
hearts. This light celebrates growth and expansion. This light comforts
me even when I don't get my way.
Mother Theresa is quoted as
saying, "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts,
there can be no more hurt, only more love."
Our challenge in
life is to grow through the less evolved forms of human love, longing,
expectation, etc., into a deeper form of love - one that wants only to
honor the light within ourselves and others. This love truly does
elevate our spirit. This love feels as if we are running pure water
through our souls. This love makes us feel like our best self, it fills
us with joy, and it needs nothing in return. In the words of Thomas
Merton, this love "is its own reward."
Have a blessed & beautiful week!
I love you... There is such a beautiful light that lives within you all,
Ann
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